2.  Spontaneous pretend play. When boring moments come along like waiting at the doctor's office. You can take advantage of the time with a little pretend play. For example pretend your hand is a spider and say something like, "It's going to get you" while walking your hand towards him on your fingertips. Or pretend your going to eat an ice cream cone. See if you can get the child to pick the flavors and eat one with you. Be sure to use hand and body motions appropriate to the illusion and descriptive words to get the child involved if he is slow to respond. Be prepared as once he catches on your child is likely to take over and the results can become pretty silly and fun for everyone.

3.  Create a Family Night once a week where the whole family gets together for a fun activity. Try to choose a night that can be consistent from week to week. This way it becomes routine and an evening the family can look forward to. For added enthusiasm and motivation have a special treat at the end of the activity. I recommended letting your children choose the activity and or treat in advance from a list of options. Not only does this add to the excitement and anticipation it also helps develop decision-making skills.